September 01, 2007
Dao and Blur
Strangely, most of what happened in school days have become a blur, including some of our school mates and teachers. Characteristically blur, it is not surprising that sometimes I pass by people who have known me but whom I have little recollection (especially for those who have since blossomed to smart gentlemen or pretty ladies). On other occasions, I recognise the person who just simply could not recall his / her name. It certainly does not help that I cannot even remember where or when I have met the person or how we have become acquainted.
Enough of the digression. I guess it is another sign of age where I seem to blabber on without noticing.
Sharon was sharing with the group about my blurness. I guess certain traits are innate. *Wink* We started off by jesting about each other's 'dao-ness' (Dao: (Hokkien) means arrogrant and aloof). We were complaining about our non-acknowledgement of each other despite being Japanese classmate, frequently sharing the same bus and meeting each other at the same bus-stop. We always needed to transfer buses at the stop opposite Far East Plaza to reach Newton. We have subsequently ended up sitting beside each other. (At this point, I was wracking my brains very hard - have Sharon and I ever sat beside each other?)
Nevertheless, it seemed like we use to go home together after classes. Once, Sharon was feeling dizzy after class, so she sat down en-route to the train station and hoped to steady herself before continuing with the journey. By the time she had regained her stability, it appeared that I had already gone out of sight. I had simply walked on and failed to notice the absence of Sharon! This was mid-nineties when mobile phones were not as prevalent. If we had missed each other, there was no way we could have contacted each other. At this juncture, Hui was already laughing incredulously. Moi? I was turning red from embarrassment of my blurness and my abandoning my friend when she was in need.
Well, this was not the end. Fortunately, I was not the 'star' in the other stories.
Back to the "dao" part. Apparently, I was not the one who thought Sharon used to be dao. Hui shared the same sentiments. I used to stereotype her to be an arrogant princess, especially with her jet black hair and porcelain features. Of course, it eventually turned up to a huge misunderstanding. While my stereotype stamped more from the exterior, Hui's misunderstanding of Sharon was more incident-driven. It appeared that when one of the Japanese class was cancelled, Sharon did not inform Hui despite them being in the same class in school and in MOELC. Hence, the misunderstanding that Sharon was a selfish person.
Fortunately, these misunderstandings were cleared soon after or we would not have shared close friendships for so many years. Yet, when we looked back at our pinafore days, we could not help laughing at each other's stupidity and blurness then, albeit fondly.
Celebration of Birthdays and Hen’s Party
We met for Hui’s belated and Sharon’s advance birthday celebrations. As usual, we are always late in birthday celebrations, so we ended up celebrating birthdays belatedly.
Given that Sharon, Jess and I always seem to have a heaty condiment, we have opted for Japanese cuisines. We believed that the selection of healthier food is of greater variety than western cuisines. This is probably one of the reasons for settling for Japanese cuisines most of the time as the selection offered is likely to cater to the different whims and fancy of the group.
Sharon has brought along her wedding photos. Always a little princess among us all (she is in fact the youngest among us), she really resembles a princess in the photos. Haven’t seen Randall for a long time, he has also grown broader and fairer in the photos. Randall used to be thinner and tanner during school days while he was training for sailing. Sharon, being an animated speaker, was sharing ‘behind the scenes’ jokes and hardship while we admired the romantic shots. For instance, one particular shot required her to tap her feet in murky water which she has initially been reluctant to do so because the water appeared to be infested with mosquitoes. Eek! Fortunately, the photos turned up to be rather romantic. In another shot which they were sharing champagne on the beach, she has confessed that it was actually chrysanthemum tea in disguise. Hee!
We cannot believe that Sharon and Randall have been together for 10 years since JC1 while Hui and Onion have been together for 7 years since Uni 1. And we have been buddies for 18 years since Sec 1, even though when we try to recall our school days, the happenings and images are becoming more and more blurry.
In 2 weeks’ time, Miss Hui will become Mrs.
In 2 months’ time, Miss Sharon will become Mrs.
The two youngest among us are putting on the wedding veil and move on to a new phase in life where they will not only be responsible for themselves but also for their life partners. It will soon be Mrs Onion and Mrs Randall. :-)
August 31, 2007
Fierce
For those who have the ‘misfortune’ of to work with me, they know that I will never hide my disagreement. However, I believe I am not being unreasonable. Strangely, those who have ‘suffered the worst fate were those with whom we have built up a good working and lasting relationship. 5050 was the one I quarreled most in my ex-job, but he has since become one of my trusted working partners especially in terms of IT projects. In fact, he is also one of my most trusted friends as I know he is always candid in his opinions, not just in terms of ideas for work but also my people relationship skills. Even till today, if I ever have any IT problem, the first person I will consult is still him.
Now, Brother is another person. In fact, we have started on a bad note. After clearing the misunderstanding, we are better aware of each other’s working style and expectations. We can now share information more freely with each other, including the occasional jokes and gossips.
Yes, I proudly admit I am the fiercest among the group of accountant. Perhaps I am trying to defend myself for my fierce attitude. Yet, I can openly confess that I hold no grudge and bear no hard feelings. I am more of a task oriented rather than people oriented person. In my rush to get things done, I may be quick with my words but they are never meant to be personal nor lasting.
I am glad for 5050 to have tolerated me in the past and Brother and M for tolerating me currently.
P.S. Although none of the above mentioned will ever see this, I just feel like thanking them, especially when I suddenly received a ‘thank you’ note from Brother. For a while, I was worried, thinking that maybe he has tendered and thus the expressed gratitude out of the blue. Fortunately, it turned up to be a false alarm.
August 29, 2007
Truth and Lie
Lie
It sounded so real – an astrological phenomenon in ‘x’ number of years, ie those that you would only see once in your life time.
We would see 2 moons because one of the planets would be so near earth that the reflection of light from the sun would create the illusion of double moons. The speed with which this was forwarded via email was fastest that you could say ‘hippopotamus’.
It turned up to be a hoax. Apparently, it has always been forwarded in August since a couple of years ago.
Truth
Red moon eclipse was real. The day after the two moons was to appear, there was really a red moon eclipse. Unfortunately, it was difficult to see in Singapore.
Shortly after I forwarded the lie, I received email from Brother with 3 URLs stating that it was not real. Oops, I was also one of the culprits, or should I say victim, who has aided in this widespread lie.
The day after the two moons was to appear, some of my colleagues who have received the forwarded email asked if I have seen the moons.
Regardless, I have ended work around nine or later, so I could not attest to either the truth or the lie with my naked eye.
August 26, 2007
Therapeutic Menial Tasks
I prefer to
a) spring clean
b) file my feet
c) iron clothes
Alright, may the third has nothing to do with cleaning, but it is more to do with putting something in order.
Spring Cleaning
Getting rid of unwanted stuff and organizing the remaining so as to achieve a more organized space. Perfect. It is always difficult in the beginning while we go through the motion of deliberating should we or should we not continue keeping. Once we get into the momentum, hmm most things will belong to the ‘throw’ category, especially when we know that we have retained them for yet another year without ever touching them.
I am quite a garang guni, ie I keep things for a long time. My A-level-and-before notes and textbooks were only thrown away last year because I moved into a smaller space where space is the scarce resource. I have kept them year after year thinking that maybe I will need to ‘consult’ them. Yet, year after year, they remained in my drawers gathering dust (no cobwebs, because I cleaned quite often, so spiders did not have a high chance of survival). Let me share with you a secret. My university notes are still with me, even though I almost never refer to them since I graduated. Shh……
Spring cleaning helps to remove the unwanted stuffs, including stress. A cleaner environment brings immense satisfaction. Sweat out to improve the home is definitely a worthy cause. Hey, I am also an advocate for minimalist (aiming, but not attaining it yet).
Filing My Feet
As age catches up with me, dead skin gathers at twice the speed. As the saying goes, there is not ugly woman, there is only lazy woman. Our feet have to carry our weight and support us in our life journey, so we must really take care of them.
Filing my feet is another therapeutic motion. The “sa-sa” of the file on my soles and the flakes of dead skin falling out remove the grim on my feet and the stress in my mind - another thoroughly brainless motion that results in another useful outcome. I am not saying that my feet become baby soft after this manual task but at least the calluses are less visible.
Ironing Clothes
Flattening the creases can be frustrating, but full concentration on this task at hand helps block away our mundane problems. It is as effective as mediation. It also helps to train one’s patience. Speed can work against you in ironing. If you go too fast, the flattening is not permanent and creases can form easily. If you go too fast before you straighten the fabric, you may end up forming a crease with your iron which is even harder to remove.
While one sweats with the ironing, the stress is sweated out. The complex thoughts are given a rest. After the exercise, one seems to have a clearer mind.
The above may sound abit unorthodox, but it works for me. Do you have your own unorthodox ways of de-stressing? Perhaps you can share and next time, I can give those ‘remedies’ a trial.
August 24, 2007
Jie Mei’s Lunch Out
We have not had lunch together for a long time because one of us would have lunch meeting or projects to do. It was a Friday – wind down mood. After discussion with Angela, we decided to initiate a jie mei men’s (Chinese, means sisters) lunch out. There were ten of us in total. Almost everyone could make it, except for two.
Just as we were looking forward to a walk along Orchard Road, it started to pour. This called for an immediate change of plan. We decided to go to our canteen for lunch instead.
As we adjourned for an earlier lunch, it was perfect timing to try our famous Korean food – most shiok for eating there and then because of the sizzling hot plate. Normally, there would be a long queue for the food. No queue was apparent as we were there at 1130, 1 hour before the official lunch hour.
It was a good 1.5 hour of catching up. We would have stayed longer if not for my boss looking for me to attend to a conference call at 1 pm.
August 23, 2007
Secret Dreams
Again, our favourite topic – travel, surfaced. Hong Kong seemed to be the choice destination of the year with four (including my boss and I) in our team of twelve had gone to this shopping paradise for vacation. Planning for a vacation is always the most exciting as we anticipate the impending fun. Reminiscing about our most recent vacation is second-best as we transport ourselves back to the places of happy memories.
One of them was sharing about a farm stay in Taiwan and how she wished she could stay there for a while without coming back. The friendly farmers, their slower pace in life and the simple and wholesome lifestyle attracted her immensely. The three of us were busy nodding our heads. Yes, this was also our ideal lifestyle. After enduring prolonged hectic schedules, such living would be a welcoming change.
Perhaps we sounded a tad too unabashedly laid-back, even though we are only in our late twenties to early thirties. Instead of forging ahead in our career, we were secretly dreaming of seeking recluse in a farm. We longed to take a year off work and travel the world. Sometimes, we would stare at our notebook screen and questioned the meaning of work.
I have always envied others who could drop everything to trek around the globe. Their independence and courage are what I hope I will acquire over time. I admire those who can even stay and work in a foreign place and truly immerse themselves in the different culture.
Am I an escapist? Am I bored with my life?
I don’t know. What I do know is I want to find out how it is in different corners of the world. What I am certain of is I want a taste of a different lifestyle? Perhaps I will be soon bored with the too-simple lifestyle, having been an urban kid so far. Perhaps I will get weary of travel and prefer the settled feeling since I have never been the most adventurous person.
Yet, I will never know if I never try. Perhaps one day, these will not be secret dreams anymore…
August 21, 2007
Colourful Languages
We always display our languages dexterity through our daily expression (both spoken and written), with a predominant English statement peppered with a smattering of Malay and Dialect. Sometimes, we may also be speaking in our mother tongues but replaced certain vocabulary with their English counterparts, mainly because at the critical moment, the mother-tongue word simply eludes us.
Some of the more creative ones even included our own local expression which involves a combination of different languages. Common expressions include “Buay Tahan” (Buay = (Hokkien) cannot, no, not; Tahan = (Malay) tolerate, bear).
Brother is again one of the most ‘outstanding’, in terms of coming out with incredulous expressions. Some of his recent inventions nearly caused me choking on my laughter. Imagine if I had laughed out loud reading my emails, my colleagues would have thought I have gone insane from the workload, so I had to control my laughter. I am not certain if they are his inventions or if he has simply heard these expressions somewhere.
Buah Long Long
- In normal context, it refers to a tropical fruit.
- In Brother’s context, Buah Long Long refers to a behaviour, eg, That XX really knows how to act, don’t know how to do but always buah long long in front of bosses.
Zhoon Zhoon Jiak Bee Hoon
- In normal context, zhoon zhoon and jiak bee hoon are separately used. Zhoon zhoon (Hokkien) means accurate. Jiak Bee Hoon (Hokkien) means eating rice vermicelli.
- In Brother’s context, this refers to so accurate that it is unbelievable, eg, Your business case shows $ x. Mine also shows $ x. Zhoon Zhoon Jiak Bee Hoon!
His inventions can even rhyme in Hokkien! They may not be those which will make it to Collin’s or Oxford Dictionary, but they are simply harmlessly funny and colloquial.
With such expressive languages, who says Singaporeans are boring.
August 20, 2007
Marina Square Food Court
I always hold a soft spot for this food court, not so much for its local delicacy but more for its view.
The food Court overlooks the Esplanade to One Fullerton to the skyscrapers which line the southern bay of Singapore. Dining is not just a commodity but has evolved to an experience. A nice view will lift one’s spirits and enhance the entire dining experience. Hence, there are people who are willing to pay a high price in exchange of a good ambience.
At Marina Square Food Court, one needs not pay a hefty price for the experience to soak up the city view of Singapore in the comfort of one’s T-shirt and shorts.
August 17, 2007
Escalator Scare
The escalator was filled from end-to-end with people with minimal space from person to person.
Then someone fell at the end of the escalator. People who are immediately behind do not have time to react and tumble over the person. People slightly behind panicked. It was either move upwards in the escalator or be squeezed and pushed to fall in front. Looking behind, there is no leeway for escape. The entire row of escalator was filled with people. People behind were oblivious to the happening and remained in their line.
I am nearing the end of the escalator. The commotion in front has not cleared. The poor person who fell remained at the foot of the escalator. The fall and injury seems imminent.
Just at this critical moment, someone pressed the emergency stop button and the escalator stopped so that all the people could file to safe ground orderly and slowly.
Phew! It was such a scare.
Although I have escaped injury-free, there were a couple of people who were not as fortunate.
The next time you took the escalator when there was a lot of crowd, please try to keep a safe distance from the person in front. If one is feeling unwell, or who is carrying bulky items, please take the elevator as a safety measure for oneself and the fellow commuters.
August 14, 2007
Different Lives, Growing Apart
However, different life and working experiences seem to drive a wedge in the bond.
I am not saying that we are no longer close. Notwithstanding, we still share the same food when we meet and conscientiously meet for one another’s birthday celebration and wedding dinner, ‘frequency’ has slightly misaligned.
We no longer like the same things. Sometimes I don’t even know what they like these days and birthday gifts now conveniently take the form of vouchers. We no longer are concerned about the same issues. I am concerned about work load and job prospects while they are concerned about marriage, kids and in-laws issues.
Does this happen to all friendships?
Are friends groups of people who happen to meet at a certain place at the same time and have the same interests? When they gradually move away from each other in pursuit of their own life goals, the bond has also weakened?
Few friendships can withstand the test of times despite putting in efforts. When we undergo different life experiences, our personalities, interests and thoughts change. In the past, we could read each other’s mind and help each other finish her sentences. Now, despite explicit expression, I may not even understand fully the message conveyed.
Do you experience the same?
I am sure I am not alone because a friend has once shared with me similar sentiments…
August 13, 2007
New Keyboard and Mouse
My mouse is small and retractable and wears a cute read coating with pink flowers. My keyboard is slim and in glistening black.
Too used to the keypad of the notebook. It takes a while to get used to the feel of the new keyboard and the location of the various keys. Prior to this, it means that you will hear me pressing the
August 11, 2007
SSO @ Vivocity
Crowds gathered at the amphitheatre long before the start of the concert. When we reached half an hour before the start of the concert, the seats were all taken up. We could only stand behind.
Familiar tunes from Carmen, Midsummer Night’s Dreams and even a medley of the local tunes of Home and Chan Mali Chan reverberated throughout the rooftop of Vivocity. Many members of the audience tapped their feet along with the familiar melodies. The Solo performance of Violinist – See Ian Ike captivated the crowd as he delivered Carmen.
Who says Singaporeans are not supportive of the Arts and Music? The strong crowd at the SSO concert has already proven the statement wrong. *Grin*
Another Gathering at Central
It was the celebration of Margaret and Lisa’s birthday. The unigirls often like novelty in terms of places for gathering. So far, we have never been to the same venue twice. They have also introduced me to various places where I have never known existed - from Esmirada’s Mediterranean dinner to Da Paolo’s Italian pasta; from a priceless view of Singapore night scenery from Equinox to a girlish time at the Tea Loft. This time, it was at Central @ Clarke Quay.
Although it was not the first time I have been to Central, they have yet again introduced me to something different. Lunch was Japanese-Italian fusion cuisines at Pasta Café de Waraku. The seats overlook Singapore River and Clarke Quay.
While the girls opted for the cream sauce pasta, I have decided to give the Wafu sauce a trial. Wafu, when translated to Japanese, stands for Japanese style. It was a clear based, slightly salted Asian sauce, sprinkled with garlic. My choice was a scallop and asparagus fettucine with Wafu sauce. The garnish was also familiarly Japanese. While for authentic Italian food, paisley and rosemary and other herbs might be used, dried seaweed was used.
Dessert was at Paisley and Cream. The bright pink coloured walls attracted our attention. Hanging on the wall are many pictures of Audrey Hepburn, including those for Breakfast at Tiffany’s.
(The bread pudding and the cheese cake which we shared)
With this birthday celebration, the next one will be in a month’s time for SL and Vim’s birthday. We can celebrate the birth of Nat’s baby in October and Lisa’s in December, together with MX’s birthday. During this ‘interlude’, Margaret will be flying off for a 3-week plus vacation in Europe, while SL continues her busy MBA schedules. Till next time…
August 10, 2007
There’s No Place I’d Rather Be
We may have traveled far and wide, immersed ourselves in various cultures around the world, be captivated by the beauty of the different seasons. Yet, it will always be Singapore who is constantly in our minds. At this point, many may have started shaking their heads, especially if one felt that there are many inadequacies of Singapore. Precisely. Regardless of whether one feels that Singapore has done well in certain areas or needs improvements in others, the fact that one has been making comparisons show that Singapore has always been in our thoughts.
How can we not?
We may be awed by the long history of one of the oldest civilizations of the world – China. We may be tempted by the tantalizing aroma of the fish and chips of Australia. We may go wild with the sleepless cities of Hong Kong and Taipei. We may look forward to skiing in Switzerland.
Often, we miss the richness of the multi-culture of Singapore while we admire the Chinese history. We miss char kway teow alongside the fish and chips. We miss our family and friends while we party in Hong Kong. We miss the warm climate amidst the cold of the snow.
There’s no other place I’d rather be.
August 09, 2007
Happy National Day
First time at Marina Bay
First time on a floating stage
First time there is performances on the sea
First time there are fireworks coming out of the pinnacle of buildings
I like this year’s parade, even though I am watching in my living room from the TV, seemingly very detached from the live ambience. Yet, I could still feel my patriotism rising and my cheers with the fireworks. My heart skipped a little when the skater missed a step and fell, but it soon turned into respect when he quickly stood up and continued with the performance.
Besides the performance, there are also touching stories of the compassion of fellow Singaporeans.
An elder Singaporean who has recovered from cancer has wished to see NDP live but has always failed in the ballot. Due to her long-fought illness and age, she wondered whether she would ever get to attend the parade in her life. Upon hearing her stories, fellow Singaporeans who have had the tickets donated their tickets to her to help her fulfill her dreams.
Good work, Singapore; good work, Singaporeans!
August 07, 2007
Helen’s Farewell
Another colleague is leaving us for greener pasture. In the current job market, everyone tends to want a new challenge every few years. Although we may be sad when your ‘comrades’ who have braved through demanding deadlines with you leave, we are also happy for them having found a better job.
The farewell party is being held at Carousel at the Park Royal Plaza at Scotts. It has been more than a year since I last visited this place. The place has since been renovated. The buffet spread has also changed from a more local fare to international style. Now, the food counters can be found at 3 corners – one for the cold dish, one for the warm food and one for the desserts. The ambience is cozy. The staff are helpful.
There is good variety of the cold dish and the desserts. The hot food pales in comparison to the former. The cold dish includes sushi, sashimi – with salmon, tuna and yellowfin. There are also cold crab, crayfish, prawns, mussels, scallops and a few other shell fish. The salad bar is equally tempting. The hot fish has a good blend of Western and Asian cuisines. The Western selection includes chicken pie, roast chicken, steak and pasta. The Asian cuisines included Chinese dim sums, Malay briyani, Thai sweet and sour fish, etc. My favourite are the slightly spicy mackerel and the garlic prawns.
There is a chocolate fondue at the dessert counter, in addition to a wide selection of cakes and fruits. My favourite is the fruit yogurt mousse. The slight sourish taste is a refreshing change from all the sweetness.
All the best, Helen.
August 05, 2007
Bottle Tree Park
(Bottle Tree)
Bottle Tree Park is a private park with a seafood restaurant and a fishing pond off Yishun. The park is visible when one takes the MRT between Yio Chu Kang and Khatib stations.
The park is like an oasis among the concrete jungle, with very ‘kampong-like’ surroundings. In addition to the fish pond where both adults and children have a whopping good time fishing or netting fishes, there is also a small field where vegetables are planted. In a short distance away, the rambutan trees are flourishing with succulent fruits.
For those who have grown up in the eighties, we have neither seen vegetables which are still in the soil or rambutans which are still swinging on the trees. The trip to Bottle Tree Park is a trip back to nature.
August 04, 2007
Secondary School Friends Gathering
A few of us were the more “sua gu” (mountain tortoise, country bumpkin) bunch. Although Chjimes as a hip dining area has been around for many years, we have yet to set foot in Chjimes. It was the first time for a couple of us. It was also a pleasant surprise to discover Esmirada amidst the many eateries. I have fond memories of this Mediterranean restaurant which was formerly at Orchard Hotel, especially of its plate breaking dance before the close of the restaurant.
Well, the ambience was definitely good and conducive for a quiet catching up with close friends. There were many types of cuisines being proffered within each eye-catching decorated and themed restaurant. After a tour of the place, we settled on western cuisine in a café where the waitresses were dressed as maids – black dresses with white aprons and blond wig with a white head scarf.
As night descended and the skies darkened, the candlelight created a cozy environment for reminiscing of our school days, our recent developments and admiring the wedding photo shoots of Hui. As Jess and Sharon are teachers, hearing them share about how different the students these days are made us wonder if we have behaved similarly during our uniformed days.
Linda, who has missed many of past outings, has commented that we still looked the same. Likewise, we have said the same of her. Somehow, we reached the conclusion that certain things do not change. This comment drew mixed feelings from me. I wondered if it was for the better or worse.
- In a time where change is the only constant, by remaining the same, have we fallen behind times?
- Perhaps we may look the same on the exterior, we are no longer the same in the interior?
- With age, we are supposed to look more mature and wise, does this mean we are still looking very idealistic and juvenile?
On the other hand, allow me to be more thick-skinned in the interpretation of the above comment.
- Perhaps this means we still look as youthful as before?
- Despite being inundated with work challenges, does it mean we have not since closed our hearts and become totally jaded?
Regardless, with so many girls gathered on one table, we were back to the rowdy bunch we were back in our blue-pinafored days where we seemed to have endless to say to each other. Unlike the past when we could say all we want to each other daily, now we could only summarise what to say during our rather infrequent gatherings.
August 02, 2007
New Workstation
At the new workstation, we will no longer have tall and single partitions. It is more open concept. The disadvantage is that we will no longer have as much privacy. Moreover, discussions at our workstations will no longer be viable because there will no longer be visitor chairs.
The advantage is that it will be new furniture. No more collapsing cabinets. No more drawers where the keys cannot be found. In addition, a more open concept will also mean easier interaction with my peers and colleagues. In the past, we are isolated in our cubicle during working hours. Now, we can just stand up and talk to each other.
The biggest headache was the move.
I decided to move all my things to the new place and just haphazardly placed them on my table for the time being. The new worktable is large enough to accommodate all my ‘barangs barangs’. After all the things were moved, then I would slowly pack them into the drawers.
When my boss walked past my table, he jokingly commented that I was messier than him. Well, not for long. I was a fast packer. Within 30 minutes, the things were neatly placed in my drawers. I stressed it was indeed neatly placed. I did not just chuck them into the drawers and just closed the drawers shut.
Then, it was my time to tease him back. Good-naturedly, of course. After all, it was end of the day, we could definitely wind down with some jokes and laughter. *Smile*
August 01, 2007
Happy 1 Year Anniversary
Alright, I confess. It is cliché to say time flies. Yet, I am sure you share this sentiment deeply with me. So, just indulge me a little and let me shout out loud.
TIME FLIES!
Hey, this is better.
Looking back at the past one year, I was in better control of my time. This is especially so between work and personal life.
Note. This is not to say I have a more lobo job.
In fact, on the contrary, I face more pressing deadlines and even longer hours on work days. The deadlines are really “drop dead” deadlines, no negotiation allowed. Once the meeting time with senior management is arranged, it can never be moved unless it was moved by the senior management’s PA. All efforts would have to be channeled to meeting that deadline. I never have to work beyond 10 pm previously. Now, working beyond 10 pm and beyond is extremely normal during budget time. Starting meeting at 8 am in the morning was almost unheard of in my ex job. Now, it can be the only way to secure time with your bosses or the senior management especially with their tight schedules.
Notwithstanding the adrenalin rush required to meet the deadlines, this adrenalin seemed to “spill over” to the “play side. Well, another cliché saying is apparent – “Work hard and play harder”. *Grin.*
I managed to go to more places for leisure, be in local or overseas. I have gone to two countries and three regions (Hong Kong and China are in the same country) in a single year. Well, rather ashamedly, at the age of 27, the places I have been to are so few that I can finish counting with the fingers on my two hands. Traveling brings about new exposures, challenges and experiences. It nudges me out of my comfort zone and widens my perspectives. I cannot help but chuckle to myself how I have given in to my long-suppressed ‘vacation bug’. It was almost as if I have, quoting my ex-colleague, ‘taken revenge’ for my deprivation. In my previous job, I have only traveled to three times in four years.
I also got to meet my friends more often, even though I still have not quite succeeded to seeing some friends as often as I wish. Time is always the scarce resources. To tell the truth, I am still desperately trying to improve my balance between family, friends and personal time. Some friends may still feel neglected but I am still trying to make up for lost time. Hopefully, they have not given up on me yet. *Praying hard*
I also have time to pursue other interests. At least, I have started a blog and managed to maintain it. Writing helps me to express my thoughts on the various issues that I have been confronted with. It is an avenue for me to be open about likes and dislikes. It is also a ‘memory stick’ for the sights and the adventures. Simultaneously, it becomes a platform for sharing of thoughts, especially through the comments friends left for some of the entries. Some of these comments might not have been posted on the blog but informally through chit chat.
Enough of me and my thoughts.
What about you? How was the last one year for you? Was it exciting? Or was it a year filled with drudgery and menial tasks? Was it a memorable year?
July 27, 2007
End of GSS 2007
When the sale is genuine, with hefty discounts on our long coveted items, consumers can never be happier. However, shopping fatigue and disappointment sets in faster when GSS becomes a gimmick to draw in crowds with no good offer of quality goods. How often do we go to a sale with high hope and optimistic expectation but to be slapped with disgust when the retailers merely dish out long outdated goods which we have seen in the last sale, the last last sale and the last last last sale? How often do we go to a cashier ready to enjoy the savings we can accumulate but to be disappointed that the discounts are only given to certain privileged cardmembers? I though the GSS is to be a shopping festival for everyone and non-discriminatory. Why is the benefit only extended to certain privileged groups?
The above cited may just represent a few black sheep among the many retailers. Yet, they can spoil the fun of shopping for consumers.
Anyway, GSS is still a time where my wallet starts to bleed. I am sure it is also so for many fellow Singaporeans.
July 24, 2007
Hong Kong – Experiences
My sore throat started developing on the trip to Disney which quickly accompanied by a fever. I had to forego the closing fireworks to recuperate because if the fever continued, I might not be able to make it past the customs.
I rest in the hotel room the whole of the following day. As I rest in the hotel room, I was overwhelmed by homesickness – feeling alone in a foreign land and worrying about relapse. I also felt guilty for spoiling the trip for my travel mate – Ah Peng. She even had to travel alone to Causeway Bay for shopping as I was too weak to go along.
Notwithstanding the falling sick incident, I had still enjoyed my Hong Kong trip.
I had learnt to be more independent with this trip, being the first time I traveled without any family members. Although I had fallen sick before during my hostel days, my mother was after all only one-hour’s MRT trip away, while in Hong Kong, she was 2 days and a 4-hour flight away, so I had to learn to take care of myself in a foreign land.
On the last day of our trip, we practically shopped on our own. It was again the first time I was on my own overseas. Yet, it was an exhilarating feeling. Perhaps it was also because Hong Kong had given me a safe and secure feeling where I had little fear when I walked on the streets alone.
With these experiences, I became more independent and ready to go on a trip alone. I hope I will be able to go back to Hong Kong another time to explore areas which I have missed out this time.
July 23, 2007
Hong Kong – Sights and Sounds
Heat
I was also more appreciative of Singapore from this trip. Although we had often complained of Singapore’s heat, it was a bliss compared to the oppressing heat experienced in Hong Kong. There was no escape from the heat, especially with the almost absent flora and fauna.
Higher Prices
We may complain that Singapore has a high standard of living and that the middle-class income earners are the “sandwiched” generation. Singapore and Hong Kong are quite close comparatively in terms of economic development. Locals in Hong Kong certainly face a higher standard of living than in Singapore. A 35-minute MTR (our equivalent of MRT) from Jordan to Tung Chung cost about HKD15 (S$3) with the Octopus Card (our equivalent of EasiLink). A simple meal with a drink in a normal café (Cha Chan Teng) cost at least HKD25 (S$5) relative to our meal of S$4 or even less.
Public Transport
The MTR is a complicated network of intertwining train lines. Inevitably, I started to draw parallel between the Hong Kong’s and Singapore’s systems when I was on the train. The Hong Kong system has some merits which are absent in Singapore systems.
For instance, the station the train is approaching or at is lit up on the MTR map found above each door. For those who missed the announcement can easily find out whether they have reached their destination. In Singapore, I have often observed people who have dozed off or those who sit or stand near the connector of the cabins often have to strain their necks to look out to see if their stations have reached. This is because they may not have heard the announcements of which station it is. Furthermore, there were instances where the wrong announcements were made.
At the same time, if the approaching station is an interchange, the connecting lines are lit up, so that passengers who need to take other lines know exactly which interchange should they go to. In Singapore, I have often met passengers (especially the elderly) asking me if they want to go to the east or the west, which interchange should they go to.
There are MTR helpers standing guard at the doors which are centrally located during peak hours. Firstly, they direct the crowd to the two ends of the train before the train approaches and prevent people queuing at these doors. This is to allow the central cabins to cater for the last minute crowd who want to take the train when the train arrives. In Singapore, commuters tend to queue at the central cabins. People who want to rush into the train when the train is stationed at the platform cannot do so as they do not have sufficient time to rush to the ends of the train and there is no more space in the central cabins. This results in inefficiency as there may be empty spaces at the end of the trains, so the trains end up carrying less people than the optimum.
Notwithstanding the above, there are also some shortcomings of the Hong Kong MTR system. There are too many overlapping stations among lines. For instance, changing from the Tsuen Wan Line (to Tsim Sha Tsui and Mong Kok) to the Hong Kong Line (to Sheung Wan and Chai Wan), one can either change at Admiralty or Central as both stations are the interchanges.
Keep to the Right
We, Singaporeans, keep to the left and allow the right path for those who need to accelerate. This applies for both driving and in MRT escalators. In Hong Kong, it is the opposite, commuters keep to the right and allow the left side for accelerated travel. Hmm, it took a while to get used to and we constantly got in the way of the office crowd when we took the MTR.
MTR Shops
There are many shops in the MTR stations. Some of them are even within the stations before we pass out of the gantries. Many are the likes of seven-elevens and bakeries. One can pay with the Octopus Card while shopping in these shops.
Food
From one Cha Chan Teng to another, the variety of food offered are similar, especially when some Cha Chan Teng has been franchised just like fast food restaurants, for eg “Da4 Jia1 Le4”.
I had tried the famous Yun Yeung (30% coffee, 70% tea), the stocking milk tea and the pineapple bun. Personally, I liked Yun Yeong the best. Personally, I prefer the tarik to stocking milk tea. As for the pineapple bun, Crystal Jade Kitchen offers a better bun than the one I had at Cha Chan Teng.
Yum Cha is a must-try activity while one is in Hong Kong. The restaurants are bustling with patrons even on a Monday morning. The large variety of dim sums caused us to be rather indecisive on our choices because there were simply too many choices. The dim sums were delicate and heavenly. In addition, the price of a decent dim sum meal was lower than Singapore’s. One funny observation was that there was very clear division of labour among the staff crew. The auntie who served the dim sums could not help you pour tea or rearrange the dim sums because it was the job of the waitress.
Neon Lights Signboards
The neon lights signboards are a signature sight of Hong Kong streets. It may look chaotic at one glance. However, it seems to remove the dullness of the buildings and distinguish Hong Kong from the other cosmopolitan cities.
Language
If one does not speak any Cantonese, fret not. With the influx of the Chinese travelers from mainland China and the dual language ability of Hong Kongers (Cantonese and English), one can always speak to the locals in English or Chinese. In fact, this was how we got by in the 5 days we were in Hong Kong.
Hong Kong – Causeway Bay
From Times Square to Sogo, there were many boutiques which I always frequent in Singapore – Espirit, G2000 Ladies, Bossini, Giodano. Despite it being a working day, the shops were still crowded with people. Walking along the roads with the shops on the side of the roads, the entire experience reminded me of Zhong Xiao Dong Lu where Mong Kok reminded me of Ximenting in Taipei.
At the junction of Sogo, there were many electrical trams passing by. The trams were so narrow that I wondered how narrow the space would be inside the tram itself.
Despite it being the summer sale, things in Hong Kong are not cheap. Prices in Bangkok and China are more competitive. My personal experience is that goods found in their normal shops during summer sales might be better value-for-money than their factory outlets. The range of goods in their factory outlets was not as attractive as those in Australia’s factory outlets like HarbourTown.
Some may comment that Hong Kong is not a place known for cheap but more for stylish items. Well, the things for the ladies I have seen in Hong Kong are similar to those which I can find in Singapore. In fact, observing the dress sense of local Hong Kongers on the MTR, in shopping malls, in cafes, Singaporeans and Hong Kongers almost dress similarly. The perception that Hong Kong has an edge in fashion sense may be outdated.
I do not profess myself to be a shopaholic and my purpose in visiting Hong Kong is more of a sightseeing rather than shopping trip. Hence, my luggage was not filled to the brim on its return. In fact, the weight of my luggage was almost similar to when I first arrived in Hong Kong. Moreover, my personal belief is that if one wants to get the best value-for-money, Singapore is still the best place for shopping.
July 22, 2007
Hong Kong - Macau
Macau is famous for its many casinos and the Portuguese egg tarts. Casinos are mainly situated at or around the Fisherman’s Wharf near the ferry terminal. As for Portuguese egg tarts, to tell the truth, we hardly spot any shops selling these at Senado Square. Most of the shops are selling almond biscuits.
Bus Trip
We started our exploration by taking bus no 3 from the ferry terminal to Senado Square which later served to be the central point from which we branched out our walk. All bus trips cost MOP/HKD 2.50 (equivalent to S$0.50) regardless of how many stops one is traveling. Exact change must be paid. The bus was like the bus that used to travel along Singapore roads in the eighties with the metallic floors and low and slim cushioned chairs with metallic handles. The windows were sliding but were sealed as it was an air-conditioned bus. Hmmm, sitting on the bus brought back nostalgic feelings of the times when Singapore first introduced air-conditioned buses. This was exactly the same “converted bus” (converted from non air-conditioned to air-conditioned) during the transition to all air-conditioned buses era.
The bus trip proffered a “sneak preview” to the lives on Macau. There were many shophouses. We have only passed by one department store – New Yaohan, en-route to Senado Square. Yaohan was a well-known Japanese departmental store in the eighties and early nineties in Singapore and has since collapsed. Many people were queuing outside Yaohan before it opened its doors at 11 am. The various shophouses, the haphazard residential blocks and the potholed roads reminded us of Hong Kong in the seventies. Of course, I was speaking with memories of the archived pictures I have seen of the older Hong Kong rather than from personal experience. Please, I was not even born then. *Grin*
We have also passed by the Golden Lotus in Full Bloom (a golden lotus sculpture) – one of the attraction on Macau. Many tourists were standing beside the sculpture and taking photos.
Senado Square
Senado Square was as beautiful as the pictures with the dual coloured mosaic floor. A water feature with lotus flowers in bloom welcomed us at the central of the square. Colourful and cheerful colonial buildings lined on two sides of the road. The square was practically a commercial hub with many shops and eateries.
St Augustine’s Church & Square
With a map in hand, we started our quest of the world heritage buildings. We thought we were following the direction in the map. However, after walking for a considerable distance, we had yet to see any “historic” building in sight. Sensing we were in the wrong direction, we retracted to Senado Square. Finally, we spotted a road sign which pointed us towards a narrow uphill lane. This proved to be the only first of our numerous wrong turns which subsequently caused us to climb downhill and uphill under the afternoon sun.
After a 15-minute walk, we reached St Augustine’s Square and Church. Ah Peng and I were slightly disappointed. Although the Square has a unique mosaic design, it was a mere eight-foot square which paled in comparison to the size of Senado Square. We were tired from the climb uphill and decided to take a respite in the St Augustine’s Church. A handsome guard welcomed us in at the entrance. He even helped us switch on some of the standing fans upon seeing us fanning ourselves rather frantically with our maps. The inside was simple but serene.
Dom Pedro V Theatre
The Dom Pedro V Theatre was opposite the St Augustine’s Church. To our disappointment, it was closed for renovation. This was again the start of a series of disappointment where many World Heritage buildings, which included St Lawrence’s Church, Leal Senado Building, St Joseph’s Church and Seminary and Sir Robert Tung’s Library, in our itinerary were closed for renovation and we could only imagine their splendor from their exteriors.
Sir Robert Tung’s Library
Following the map, we walked a good distance from St Augustine’s Church and still could not locate the Sir Robert Tung’s Library. Adding oil to the fire, we had to pass by a very aromatic almond biscuit shop twice which was a stark reminder of our exhaustion. Finally, we decided to seek help from the Police (known as Policia in Macau). Urghh! The Sir Robert Tung’s Library was only diagonally across St Augustine’s Church. This time, we did not blame it on our idiotic map reading skills. This was definitely the doing of a poor map with poor capturing of the road and scale. When we referred to the map, Sir Robert Tung’s Library was supposed to be as far from St Augustine’s Church as Senado Square. Who could have guessed that it was right at the doorstep of St Augustine’s Church?
St Joseph’s Church and Seminary
We saw the name - Saint Jose. At that time, we still naively believed that the map was the only key to our tour. From the map, St Joseph’s Church and Seminary was a good distance from Sir Robert’s Library. As we walked downhill from St Augustine’s Church, we only passed by road signs which indicated St Lawrence’s Church. No sign for St Joseph’s Church. By now, we had already grown slightly smarter. If we could not find St Joseph’s Church, we would forego it and visit St Lawrence’s Church which was not in our original itinerary instead of wasting time of searching for St Joseph’s Church.
Surprise of all surprise, when I looked at the exterior of the building with St Jose, it had the same feature as the picture indicated in our guide. The only difference was the colour. In the guide, it was a yolk yellow while the building now was a pale green. To think, we had initially dismissed St Jose as the legendary St Joseph’s Church and Seminary solely because the colour of the building was different from that in the guide.
St Lawrence’s Church
It was the third church that we have seen and the second which we could not enter due to its renovation works (after St Joseph’s Church and Seminary).
Leal Senado Building
The building was again a colour of yolk yellow, similar to that of St Augustine’s Church and buildings on Senado Square. The parlor of the building had the same mosaic patterns as that on Senado Square.
We were barred from entry as it was closed for renovation. Then we were back at Senado Square.
Holy House of Mercy
It was a white colour building near the entrance of Senado Square.
Ruins of St Paul’s
It is the famous landmark of Macau with its pictures replicated everywhere Macau was mentioned. It even poises on the plastic bags of the various shops in Macau. It was a stone wall with numerous statues on the wall on a mini hill top. There was a small museum which gave some introduction to Catholicism behind the wall.
Shopping and Eating in Macau
Along the route from the entrance of Senado Square to Ruins of St Paul’s lies many shops selling the famous peanut candy and almond biscuits of Macau. The wafting fragrance from each shop seemed to overpower one another, fighting for the passerbys’ attention. We decided to step into one of the most crowded ones to take a look. Free sampling was allowed before one decided on one’s purchase.
There were numerous boutiques – Giodano, Bossini, etc, nearby. For food selection, there was the famous Gourmet Kitchen founded by Cai Lan, a famous Hong Kong gourmet writer, the ubiquitous McDonald’s and other Cantonese eateries. We decided to try “Huang Zhi Ji” when we noticed a long queue. Ha, this is typical Singaporean mentality – if there is a queue, the food must be good. We waited for about 15 minutes before we were shown to our tables.
I had the wanton noodles soup and the fig honey tea. Wow! The noodles were springy without being tough to chew. The wantons had soft but non-sticky skins. Fresh prawns were used as the fillings. The fig honey tea was cool and refreshing, soothing to the throat on a hot day.
The delicious food was certainly worth the wait!
Bus Trip Back
We went back to the bus stop where we first came and wanted to take a bus back to ferry terminal. We asked around and an uncle pointed us to take the same bus no 3. We took the bus and it took us to the bus terminal at the ferry terminal to Zhu Hai at the Barrier Gate instead of the HK-Macau Ferry Terminal.
Alamak! How? At this time, we had already run out of small change to take another bus.
Since visits to the casino was part of our itinerary. We decided to pick a casino which was near the HK-Macau Ferry Terminal and took the free bus provided by the Casino to the Casino before thinking of ways to go back to the Ferry Terminal then. We decided on the Sands.
On the way to the Sands, we pass by Fisherman’s Wharf and the statue of Kun Lam (Holy Goddess of Mercy).
Sands Casino
It was a golden building. Its exterior façade was made out of many golden panels.
There were 3 floors devoted to all sorts of games for different preferences. Inside the casino, there were also food courts, fast food restaurants and restaurants. There were many people from the yuppies to uncles and aunties.
Personally, I did not like the environment as there was too much smoke from the cigarettes and too crowded and noisy for comfort.
It was almost time for our departing ferry, so we took a free bus provided by the casino the Ferry Terminal.
Ferry Ride
The ferry ride back to Hong Kong showed a beautiful sea resplendent in a golden light from the sunset. I spent a good one-hour doing nothing but just looking at the beautiful sea.
July 21, 2007
Hong Kong – A Symphony of Lights
The Star Avenue overlooked the Hong Kong Island. Many hands prints of famous artistes, including Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung could be found on the floor of Star Avenue.
(Lights from the skyscrapers on Hong Kong Island viewed from Tsim Sha Tsui)
With music playing, the fireworks started. Cameras were held high as many attempted to capture the dazzling lights. Numerous “wows” were heard where a kaleidoscope of fireworks shot through the night skies.
(Beautiful and colourful fireworks lit up the Hong Kong night skies)
When the fireworks ended, many still lingered on the Star Avenue to take photos of the famous prints or the beautiful night scene of the Hong Kong Island.
July 20, 2007
Hong Kong – Lantau Island
To travel to the Big Buddha and the Po Lin Monastery, we took a MTR ride to Tung Chung MTR. Then we took a one-hour bus ride via the bus route 23 at the Tung Chung Bus Terminal. The ride was arduous because the journey took us through the valleys and mountains. The roads which were winding with many ups and downs could be a challenge to those prone to carsickness. After enduring an hour of discomfort, we finally reached.
The view at the top was mesmerizing. Clouds rolled by. The Ngong Ping village lay below. The picturesque mountains and the seas formed a permanent landscape portrait.
When it came for the time to leave the place, we were filled with anxiety as it implied another hour of nauseous and bumpy journey. *Faint*
City Gate Factory Outlet
The City Gate Factory Outlet was just beside the Tung Chung MTR station. Espirt, Giodano, Adidas, Nike, City Chain, The Body Shop, Ralph Lauren and others are housed the same roof. This is a must-see place for the shopaholics who can ‘kill many birds’ in the same mall.
There is also a big supermarket at the basement of the mall for those who like to take a peek at the variety of groceries in Hong Kong.
Disneyland Hong Kong
It is every child’s dream to visit Disneyland – home to all our favourite characters and fairytales.
Two rows of shops greeted and led us to the castle of Sleeping Beauty and Tomorrowland. The shops were reminiscent of an old European town with the Victorian architecture. The shops offered various souvenirs for those who wanted to bring a piece of the magical Disneyland home.
The magnificent Sleeping Beauty’s castle stood at the end of the pathway stood the magnificent castle. Its grandeur beckoned to us from afar. As we passed through the castle, we were welcome by the Cinderella’s carousel, the swirling cup rides and the Mickey Mouse Theatre. The 3D show inside the Mickey Mouse Theatre was a must-watch performance.
July 19, 2007
Hong Kong – Mong Kok
Hong Kong is like Singapore. Shopping is not concentrated only in the central business district but could be found everywhere, even in the suburb areas. Perhaps like Singapore, shopping has been closely integrated in the Hong Kongers’ lives such that shopping has become a national leisure activity.
Mong Kok has mainly the lower price-ranged goods. There are several street markets that stretch between Mong Kok and Prince Edward MTR stations. Shophouses of about 2 to 3-storey line the various streets. The streets are flooded with the after-office hour crowd and bustling with activities after sunset. Many yuppies and students dined and loitered around Mong Kok.
Fa Yuen Street is a street where almost all the shops sell sports shoes. Although similar designs can be found in many shops, the prices, size and colour availabilities can be slightly different.
Tung Choi Street is where the famous Ladies’ Street is located. To be frank, I was rather disappointed with the variety of goods found, especially when we have heard so much about this street. Many stalls sell similar goods, especially hand bags and wallets where a greater variety could be found in mainland China and at lower prices.
This area also offers a good range of the boutiques which are well-known names in Singapore, such as Baleno, Bossini, G2000, Giodano, etc.
July 16, 2007
Consolation for Heartache
I have given her the tickets for the NDP NE Preview show. She has given me one of the goodie bags which she has received during the show.
At least the bag will be a memorable keepsake and consolation for my not being able to participate in Singapore's bash. Thanks to her kind gesture, the bag did help to alleviate some of my heartache. :-)
July 14, 2007
In Need of Some Consideration
The MRT cabin is a daily companion for me and other fellow commuters. Similarly, it is also a harness of numerous stories and incidents. With the seemingly growing morning crowd, the lack of personal space sometimes worsens the commuting experience. The daily ‘battle’ to get into the train and survive the 15 minute of journey sets forth a series of frustration and irritation. I cannot help but wonder if the traveling experience can be improved if fellow commuters can be more considerate and the designs of the train be more ergonomically friendly.
“Bo Chup” Parents
Children are born naturally active and playful. However, the inside of a train cabin is hardly an ideal playground. “Playing” in the train does not only increase the probability of the children hurting themselves, but fellow commuters as well. Some of the parents simply act oblivious to their children’s actions, shirking responsibility towards the safety of their children as well as their consideration for the public. How often have we observed children running around the cabin, climbing up the pole or using the hand grips as swings. While being excited by the various “toys” in the cabin, the children scream and shout.
Some parents have also allowed their children to stand, with their shoes, on the seats to view the sceneries outside. The cabin seats are shared by many different passengers and are meant for ‘sitting’, not ‘standing’ on.
Children may not know the protocols of civic passengers. The parents bear the responsibilities of instilling in them a considerate attitude on public grounds and public transport. They should act as role models to inculcate civic-mindedness from young.
“Slow–motion” Passengers
A crowded train does not facilitate rapid exit and entrance. However, all passengers can definitely do their part in not aggravating the situation.
“Doo Doo Doo, Train doors closing” How often have we heard the too-familiar warning and we are still waiting outside the cabin and anxious to get in before the door closes. However, even at the eleventh hour, we must be patient and wait because there are passengers who are slowly making their exit. These slow-motion passengers often only make their way out after the train has stopped for some time, thereby slowing down the process of the alighting and boarding process.
If only they can be more considerate by getting ready for their exit before the train stops (ie at least pack their things or make their way nearer the exit), it definitely will reduce time and anxiousness for everyone.
We will be able to find these slow-motion commuters endangering other commuters’ safety when they slowly move away from the top or bottom of the escalators, often with a mobile phone in their hands or sticking to their ears.
If only, they can have a heart for those commuters who are behind them and move quickly from the bottom or top of the escalators before continuing with their conversations or SMS, it can greatly reduce pushing around and freak accidents at the escalators.
Low-hanging Hand Grips
The hand grips often result in the centre belt of the cabin being a “danger hot-spot” for the taller people. How often do we forget their existence as we move inwards / outwards to be knocked by their plastic casings.
Fortunately, for the newer trains, these are moved towards the side of the train and thereby creating more headroom in the centre belt.
No matter if it is due to increasing population which is increasingly taxing on our public amenities and transport or if it is due to cost cutting measures of the transport companies to cut back on the frequency of the trains, the trains seem to be crowded almost all times and all-week. Hence, to ensure that the commuting experience is less of a chore for all, we should all play our part in reducing the discomfort for one another by showing more courtesy and consideration.
July 13, 2007
Heartache
Yet, no one could or wanted to go with me. It would be weird going alone. Hence, I have decided to give the tickets to a colleague instead since she had previously indicated she would like to go but was not among the shortlisted.
This was the second time I gave away any NDP tickets. The last time, I was given one ticket due to my participation in corporate projects.
It was heartache giving away the tickets. However, I reckoned my colleague would definitely enjoy the parade with her husband and it would be a pity to let the tickets go to waste.
Still, I have yet again missed out on Singapore’s birthday bash. Sigh!
July 10, 2007
Trapped in Lift
As we were taking the lift down back to office after our nasi lemak lunch, we became rather disturbed when the lift did not move. We started pressing different floors and the door open button to no avail. Hence, we decided to press the alarm. Still, there was no response from the lift or from anyone. Then we press the talk button to communicate with the security. They stated that they were looking into it.
Wait.
More wait.
Still, no movement and no further communication.
We pressed the talk button to talk to the security again. They asked if we were still trapped. Of course, we answered in unison.
More waiting.
Then the lift jerked. It stopped. Then it jerked again. We were holding tight to the railing at the side of the lift to steady ourselves.
Fortunately, it started to move all the way down to first floor and the doors opened.
More fortunately, neither of us was hurt in this incident.
What an adventure.
Nasi Lemak + Wine
I was held up in a meeting and was late. Again, I drew daggers from our CQC and Chairperson, albeit in a fun way. Then, it was to tuck into my already turning cold nasi lemak. There was a bottle of sparkling alcoholic drink which we shared around, but we each have taken a few slips just for the fun of it and also not so tipsy that it would affect our performances. It had a 5% alchohol and 40% red wine. We were debating quite a while on whether the alchohol content should be 45% or 5% because red wine was also a form of alchohol. As our faces became flushed as we talked, we were unsure if it were due to the excitement of our chat or the wine.
We also had announcement that one of our team member would be living us soon. Soon, it would be time for another farewell dinner.
July 08, 2007
Changi Seaside
I was back at Changi Village for more good food and the seaside. We had wanted a stroll along the seaside before dinner. Unfortunately, we arrived at an inopportune time. Rain started pouring from the bleak skies. We needed an immediate change of time. Despite it being real early (around 4 pm) we went for dinner.
I had wanted to try the famous nasi ayam (chicken rice) previously. Finally, here came my chance. The fried chicken thigh was served in a wooden plate with generous chilli sauce. The aroma from the rice wafted through the air and whetted our appetite. Yes! It was indeed satisfying.
After dinner, the rice stopped and we went to the seaside for a short after-dinner stroll. Many families set up tents and maps near the seaside. They have either prepared food for picnic or they have rented the barbecue pits. Many children played in the sea.
The seaside has a calming effect and definitely a great way to distress. Every few minutes or so, a low-lying plane flew overhead as it had just departed from the Changi Airport.
I preferred Changi Village to East Coast as I found East Coast too crowded and commercialized. The crowd at East Coast can worsen claustrophobia than alleviate it. The laid-backness of Changi, on the other way, provides a more suitable venue for winding down and relaxation.
CATS Car Carnival
Those who are not so into cars, fret not. There were many other activities in the carnival which would keep us occupied. To enjoy some of the freebies, one would need to make use of the coupons published in the newspapers. There were free ice-cream (Ben & Jerry’s), sherbets (King’s), coffee (Nova), popcorn, cotton candy, packet drinks (Yeo’s).
There were also free games – one of which allowed each player to try to throw a ball through 3 tyres. I have managed to throw my ball through 1 tyre in both attempts. So far, the best players are the uncles. I have witnessed 2 uncles threw the ball through 3 tyres.
There were also competitions at the centre stage to keep everyone entertained. One competition involved getting eight contestants on stage to do belly dancing. The spontaneity and dexterity of the participants drew applause from the audiences.
Mascots were also abundant and available for photo taking. One of the resurrected newest kid on the block was Transformer. Many kids were excited at the appearance of the Optimus Prime.
July 07, 2007
Live Earth
It is a 24 hour concert which spans 9 countries and numerous artistes.
It is a movement to call out to the world citizen to play their part in preserving our climate.
It is a weekend where those who support the movement are encouraged to wear green.
Global warming, extreme weather and disappearing glaciers and seas are some of the warning sirens which come too fast and furious. Global warming with the green house effect results in rising temperature and disappearing glaciers. The prophesies? Mankind will face shortage of fresh water soon. Melting of the ice cap in Antarctic means that there is rising sea level which can cause flooding of the low-lying coastal areas and cities. Over-fishing and diverting of the rivers for irrigation have led to the disappearing of Aral Sea in the Silk Road. Aral Sea used to be the biggest oasis in the desert. Snow falling in the summer caught many travelers unprepared in Europe.
Mankind has been myopic in the industrialization and modernization progress. The short term economic gains often come at a price which would be paid by the next generation. We sowed the seeds while our children, grandchildren and great grandchildren would reap the adverse effects.
Live Earth gathered many well-known celebrities to drive hard and strong the message of being environmentally friendly.
1) Recycle to reduce the strain on resources and reduce trash and waste.
2) Increase the temperature of our aircon to save electricity and reduce green house cases emission. The temperature is way too low if we need to cover ourselves with a jacket in the room. It is better if the fan is used instead to dispel the heat.
3) Reduce the volume of the TV or the sound system to reduce the use of electricity. This is both saving the earth and saving the pocket, especially in view of rising oil prices.
4) Turn off PC, TV, or other electrical appliances when not in use. Shut down your PC before you leave office instead of leaving the PC and monitor on overnight.
5) Walk instead of drive to the nearest supermarket or park. It is both beneficial to the environment and our health.
Nothing is too insignificant. No action is too soon. It applies to preserving our health, wealth and earth. All small parts add up. Your procrastination will have dire effects on yourself, your children, your family, mankind and even all fellow beings on earth.
July 06, 2007
Lotus in Bloom
(A garden of lotus)
(A blossoming lotus flower)
(A lotus bud and a lotus in full bloom)
When I did a google on lotus, there seemed to many species of lotus. The ones in the pictures have a flower name of Nelumbo nucifera. They are commonly known as blue lily, water lily and sacred lily and can be found in Asia and Australia.
Another piece of knowledge and a priceless sight.
July 02, 2007
Corporate Event
I took a ride from CY to The Cathay. The buffet spread was not fantastically wide like a hotel's spread but it was certainly sumptuous. After the dinner, we were invited to Transformers movie and each of us had a packet containing a bottle of coke and a packet of popcorn, though I was so entranced by the movie that I did not have time to eat and drink during the movie.
It provided me an excuse to knock off on time on a Monday evening and had an enjoyable evening. Such appreciative gestures do warm hearts.
Transformers
For those who grow up in the eighties, Transformers are our playmates. The weekly cartoon series were must-watch shows. Your primary school classmate sitting in the same group sang to you the theme songs during breaks. The boys might even bring the Transformers toys to class and role-played their own version of the Transformers (although sometimes it was Ninja Turtles). Watching Transformers the movie was as if time has gone back to my primary school days.
Of course, this was an 'updated' version of the eighties. The Transformers came to know about information from World Wide Web and eBay. Some of the robots could plant viruses into the mainframes. The electrical gadgets which could be transformed to bad robots were iPods and Nokia phones. Despite the ubiquitous high tech stuffs and cars being featured, the themes have not changed from the eighties version. The messages on maintaining peace, fighting for justice and saving mankind are still the key areas of emphasis.
It is a fast-paced, action and effects packed show which leaves no breaks to heave a sigh of relief. I was holding to my belongings, perhaps my breath as well, tightly throughout the show. In fact, I have only let go towards the end of the show.
The conclusion was that it was a typical guy show, but it was a typical guy show that I have enjoyed.